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They’re married because they took fate into their own hands—which is all the more needed when the numbers are so against you.In seven of the couples, the woman pursued the men.“It’s decisive women who, maybe, odds-wise are more likely to get the guy,” Birger tells me. They would rather not take their chance than put themselves out there and get rejected.”There were moments when Date-Onomics is initially disheartening—especially if you’re a 25-year-old woman who takes comfort fantasizing the perfect guy is out there and you just haven’t found him yet.“For a college-educated woman who puts an extremely high-priority on getting married to a college-educated man, she may be better off strategically—though not necessarily romantically—getting married young to Mr. But, as occurred so many times reading Date-Onomics, I ultimately felt liberated, fear replaced by the realization that driving yourself crazy to find some mystical “best”—and, in turn, to attract that mystical “best”—was a waste.Guttentag and Secord noticed there was an over-supply of young, single women when the Women's Liberation movement and the sexual revolution blossomed.Further research showed that societies tended to skew away from monogamy when men were in scarce supply. are both rooted in a statistical over-supply of women," writes Birger.The gap’s impact on dating for straight, single women is exacerbated, Birger explains, because men with college degrees are consciously or subconsciously aware that they are in scarce supply.They take advantage of their rarefied status by holding off settling down and enjoying the market of riches—and Birger’s book includes colorful anecdotes.Hendrik not only engages in the delights of not texting one-night-stands and ditching women who don’t immediately agree to have sex with him, but also loves playing women off each other by insulting others to manipulate them into feeling special.
Fort Lauderdale has 71 percent more female college grads than male between ages 22-29, followed by Providence, which has 60 percent more. And it’s not a matter of being too fat or too loud, too timid or too aggressive, too slutty or too frigid.